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What is emotional abuse?

Persistent emotional ill-treatment of a child that has a severe and adverse effect on their emotional development. It can include making a child feel worthless or unloved, verbal abuse, frightening them, or exposing them to the ill-treatment of others.

Updated in KCSIE 2026

Checked against the official guidance on . Sources

KCSIE 2026 paragraph 27 describes emotional abuse. It can mean telling a child, in words or behaviour, that they are worthless, unloved or only valued when they meet someone else's needs. It can mean silencing a child or mocking how they speak, expecting things far beyond their age or development, overprotecting them so they can't explore and learn, or stopping them mixing with others.

KCSIE 2026 added that it may include verbal abuse, such as persistent criticism, belittling or name-calling. Annex C lists this as one of the 2026 clarifications.

Seeing or hearing someone else being ill-treated, such as domestic abuse at home, can be emotional abuse. So can serious bullying, including cyberbullying, that leaves a child frequently frightened, and the exploitation or corruption of children.

KCSIE says some emotional abuse is part of every kind of maltreatment, though it can also happen on its own. That makes it one of the harder forms to evidence: there is rarely a single incident. Schools are well placed to notice the signs over time, such as a child who is very anxious, withdrawn, desperate to please or harsh about themselves, and to record each observation so the DSL can see the pattern. The Working Together 2026 glossary uses a similar definition.

In the official guidance

  1. Keeping children safe in education 2026, Part one, paragraph 27, and Annex C, Summary of changes (DfE, in force from 1 September 2026).
  2. Working Together to Safeguard Children 2026, Appendix A: Glossary, Emotional abuse (DfE, March 2026).

Last checked . This explains the official guidance in plain words. It isn’t legal advice, and your local safeguarding partnership’s procedures and your own policies also apply. If anything here is wrong or out of date, email support@pupilprotect.co.uk.